Monday, May 11, 2009

Mother's Day postponed. It's Birthday time for Mr. Deter!

So my man is now 30 years old!  I was seriously frustrated because I did not know what to do for his birthday.  It's 3 decades, I knew I had to do something big, but WHAT?  Matt is not a hard guy to shop for.  His loves are very obvious to EVERYONE.  Sports and food are about all you need to say to describe my hubby.  However, I really wanted to do something unique, something special. Thank goodness for this site, I don't know what I would have done without it.  I wish I had fallen upon it a lot earlier, it would have helped me with a lot of gifts in the past.  Well, I found THE PERFECT GIFT for my crazy drivin hubby, and it was in Las Vegas.  I signed him up to do the Richard Petty driving experience.  We actually got to go inside the Las Vegas speedway, be in Richard Petty's pit and Matt got to actually drive a real stock car that Richard Petty drives (not the exact one, just a type of stock car that he drives).  It was such a surreal experience.  I can't 100% describe the feeling.  I didn't even participate, but I was like a little kid on Halloween.  I was so excited for Matt.  Matt was so nervous, it was awesome.  Matt NEVER gets nervous, so when he did, I knew I did a good job on this gift.  He took a class, they got him all geared up, just like they do to all the race car drivers, and he drove a stock car by himself going 135 miles an hour.  He did so good!!!  He always surpasses my expectations.  It was eight laps, so it went by fast, but he loved it.  Britney and Matt Mendel babysat Madeline overnight for us, so we got to leave Friday afternoon and we did not get back till Saturday night.  It was my first night without my little munchkin.  It was a little hard at first, but I have to say it was a trip well needed.  It took me back to what it was like when Matt and I were dating.  We did not have a curfew to put the munchkin down by or anything.  It was funny though, we were both dead tired by like 10:30pm, especially me.  We are not used to the night life anymore.  I have not had that much fun in such a long time. THANK YOU so much Britney and Matt.  I don't know what we would do without you guys.  We are so blessed with such amazing friends!!!

Now, enjoy the pics:

Birthday Boy; SO HOT!



Ahhhh, some alone time.  So cheezy.


So, below is when he pretty much just found out about his gift.



Still not that nervous.







Oh yeah, getting really nervous now.  Look at the intensity!


About to take off, luckily the car was dry afterwards, he was able to refrain from wetting himself.  HE DID SO GOOD!





Tuesday, April 14, 2009

I LOOOOOOVVVVVEEEEEEEE EASTER!!!













I absolutely love Easter.  I also unfortunately love Cadbury eggs.  I would like to meet the sheer genius who invented these yummy, calorie filled treats, which are making my workouts absolutely miserable and I may need a program to ween me off of them.  

All that aside Easter was wonderful.  Our neighbors invited us to do a Easter Egg hunt last Saturday, but was canceled due to the UGLY, ANNOYING weather.  We changed it to this previous Saturday, and although it was a little cold, it worked out perfect.  

Since Madeline is only one I thought she would not be that into the whole Easter Egg hunt part, but I was pleasantly surprised.  She was actually excited to grab the eggs and put them in her basket.  Our friends Brittany and Matt were nice enough to donate their Elmo basket to us.  If anyone knows Madeline, they know how much she loves Elmo.  Ever since the hunt she has been playing with her plastic eggs and her basket all day long.  She even had to have her eggs in her bath with her today.  

After the hunt we went to Brittany and Matt's to dye eggs.  It is definitely not a talent I have, but I do enjoy it.  Easter is so beautiful and meaningful.  It is Spring time.  Time to Spring forward and start anew.  And of course the most important time to remember what our Savior did for us.  I thought it was so cute.  My neighbor came over and told me that she knew Saturday would be ugly and then Easter Sunday would be beautiful.  She said that it is always like that, that the day our Lord resurrected was and is always beautiful and it is definitely not just chance that has led it to be that way.  We are of different faiths, however that does not matter at all.  I love how individuals of different faiths can come together and acknowledge the Sacrifice and Atonement, which our Lord did for each and everyone of us.

On Friday, the day before the hunt, I got to host Activity Days for the young girls in our church. I love this calling and these girls.  They are a stronger example to me than I probably am to them.  Anyways, we spoke about Easter, why we celebrate it and the significance of what Jesus did for us on the cross and through his resurrection.  We had a nice talk.  I remember reading a scripture, sorry I don't have the reference on hand, but it mentioned how every hair on our head is accounted for by our Heavenly Father.  I loved it!  He loves us so much, that every piece of us, hair and all, is accounted for.  Maybe that is why I am having such a hard time trying to convince myself to cut a little bit off of Madeline's mohawk, mullet.   

Anyways, Easter Sunday was great as well.  We went to church, I made some ham with pineapple, and then we went and had some dessert with our friends Sami and John. Yummiest carrot cake ever.  It was so nice to have some friends to spend the day with.  We get lonely without our families at times here in Utah, so it made our day more complete.

What a wonderful Day!!!

Friday, April 3, 2009

Just some babble and some pics.

I first wanted to say thank you to all of you who participated in the pee pee poll.  I was honestly surprised to find that many people who pee in the shower.  28 to 12 is pretty dang impressive.

So, I always use the cop-out that I am just not the creative type. I look at a lot of my girl friends and I admire their creations so much. I have friends who are amazing photographers, I have some who create the most beautiful clothing and other types of arts. I could write a list of all the things many of my friends can do, but it would be a little too long for this post. I love people who embrace their talents and run with them. I think for me at times the fear of failure stops me from using my creative abilities. Although I am not the artsy type I do have creative abilities which I really need to expand on, otherwise they are such a waist. Click here to listen to this short exert about creativity. I've posted the whole talk in the past, but this short little part of the speech does the trick. It really inspired me today and I wanted to share it with all of you.

So, Madeline got her pics taken with the Easter bunny. I also have some pics of her playing in the water. This little girl amazes me every day. She is our own personal ray of sunshine. WE ARE SO BLESSED!  Oh and please don't throw up when you look at my white pasty legs.  Blame it on UT who likes to tease us with the sun and then rip it away!






Thursday, March 26, 2009

He loves me, he loves me not? HE LOVES ME!




Yes, he did ladies.  My hubby came home yesterday with some beautiful flowers.  I stared at them all night and I am continuing to stare at them all morning.  Flowers make me so happy, especially with this ugly weather right now.  What is it about flowers that make most of us girls so happy?  For me, I believe the reason I love them so much is that they make me feel fresh, beautiful and appreciative for all the beautiful gifts are Heavenly Father has provided for us. Thank you so much hubby, you really made my week!!!




I love these pics, they make me look forward for what is to come this summer.  Plus it cracks me up that Madeline will only wear her sunglasses when we go on a walk.  Madeline and Luke have been hanging out quite a bit lately and I think that they are finally acknowledging that each other exist.  Madeline has been really into babies lately.  It cracks me up that they are so fascinated by other little people.  I wander if they think they are big and are not a baby.  Who knows, but it is precious!


By-the-way check out our pee pee poll. I did not know there were so many fellow yellow water makers. I am truly proud! Make sure you vote if you have not already. I think there are still 4 more days. Tell your friends to vote. I am seriously very curious how many of us there are out there.

Monday, March 16, 2009

Bubbles and Yellow Water!

So, I was giving Madeline a bath this morning and then all of a sudden the water started bubbling. I started cracking up. Yes, she did, she farted in her tub.  For those of you who know us pretty well I am sure you are thinking, "wow she is definitely your and Matt's daughter."

Anyways, her bubbles made me think of a poll that I thought would be funny. When Matt and I got married I found out that he pees in the shower. I thought this was absolutely disgusting. I made him stop needless to say. I swear, just a few days after, Matt got athletes foot. To this day he swears that because he stopped peeing in the shower he got athletes foot. So, the sucker that I am, I let him return to peeing in the shower. Right after I let him continue his yellow water makin his athletes foot went away. Coincidence, I don't know.

I would like all of you, and of course this is anonymous, to answer my poll. Do you pee in the shower? Even if you only sometimes pee in the shower you need to answer yes. Only if you NEVER pee in the shower can you answer no.

Not to gross all of you out, but to make you feel more comfortable, yes I am now a yellow water maker and I must admit, it is liberating!






Here are some pics of her on the Merry-go-round as well. She absolutely loved it. She even cried when we took her off. This was the first time Matt got to see her and take her on the Merry-go-round. He was in heaven! That girl is so much fun!






Friday, March 13, 2009

Temples


John 2: 13-16

13 ¶ And the Jews’ passover was at hand, and Jesus went up to Jerusalem,
14 And found in the temple those that sold oxen and sheep and doves, and the changers of amoney sitting:
15 And when he had made a ascourge of small cords, he drove them all out of the temple, and the sheep, and the oxen; and poured out the changers’ money, and overthrew the tables;
16 And said unto them that sold doves, Take these things hence; make not my Father’s house an house of merchandise.

For those of you who do not already know this, there is a new temple that was just built by our house, the new Draper, Temple. Matt and I are very excited about this. It is right next to our house and it is so beautiful. The temple is now having its open house for the public to go and see the temple and learn more about temples in general. We had the opportunity to take some neighbors who are Catholic and wanted to learn a little more. It was a wonderful night to be able to share that with our friends and to be in the Lord's house. We also had the opportunity to volunteer to help out with the open house. I was on cloud nine that day. It has been so much fun to meet new people and to be able to share this aspect of our life with our friends.

I know I have been writing a lot of posts about the various networks who like to show their version of what sacred ceremonies take place in our temples. I say their version since they are obviously not members and therefore do not know how the ceremonies take place, so they have recreated the ceremonies as to what they think takes place.

There are many who do not necessarily understand why it bothers members of the LDS church that these networks are showing these sacred ceremonies and ordinances on tv. I have attempted to explain why I feel that it is completely inappropriate and wrong as well. However, the other day I could not stop thinking out the versus in the Bible from John chapter two, versus 13 through 16.

Temples are not something foreign or new, they have existed since the beginning of time. They are the Lord's house, where his faithful children go in order to make sacred covenants with him. Hebrews 13:8 "God is the same yesterday, today, and forever." God has never and will never change and we therefore practice the same practices that have taken place since the world began with Adam and Eve. No, or course we do not sacrifice animals. For those of you who are familiar, Christ was the ultimate sacrifice and he therefore fulfilled that commandment and it is no longer necessary to sacrifice animals as they did in Old Testament times.

Each temple is a sacred house of our Heavenly Father. It is a place where a man or woman can leave this world and enter into our Father's house, make covenants with him so that one day we may return to him, and also receive answers to those questions that we may need a little more help with. It is a place of peace and love that cannot be found in our world today.

When you read the versus above in the book of John you can read about the anger that Christ displayed when those merchants were making a mockery of his Fathers house. Do you understand how he felt and why he was so upset and angry? I certainly do. Even more now that there are television networks out there that are doing the same thing. They are making sacred practices into Hollywood shows and therefore making a mockery of the Lords house, so they can put some more money into their pocket books. I truly hope that all of you can see that there is absolutely no difference between what those merchants were doing when Christ was here on earth and what these television networks are doing in our day. I hope that helps all of you to better understand where the members of the LDS church are coming from. Thanks!

Please click here to see this short video.

Monday, March 9, 2009

Regarding my previous post that I deleted.

The church has asked us not to contact HBO, or TV Guide regarding these shows. The church has asked us to let the Public Affairs Department handle this. Please read below:

The Publicity Dilemma

SALT LAKE CITY 9 March 2009 Like other large faith groups, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints sometimes finds itself on the receiving end of attention from Hollywood or Broadway, television series or books, and the news media. Sometimes depictions of the Church and its people are quite accurate. Sometimes the images are false or play to stereotypes. Occasionally, they are in appallingly bad taste.

As Catholics, Jews and Muslims have known for centuries, such attention is inevitable once an institution or faith group reaches a size or prominence sufficient to attract notice. Yet Latter-day Saints – sometimes known as Mormons - still wonder whether and how they should respond when news or entertainment media insensitively trivialize or misrepresent sacred beliefs or practices.

Church members are about to face that question again. Before the first season of the HBO series Big Love aired more than two years ago, the show’s creators and HBO executives assured the Church that the series wouldn’t be about Mormons. However, Internet references to Big Love indicate that more and more Mormon themes are now being woven into the show and that the characters are often unsympathetic figures who come across as narrow and self-righteous. And according to TV Guide, it now seems the show’s writers are to depict what they understand to be sacred temple ceremonies.

Certainly Church members are offended when their most sacred practices are misrepresented or presented without context or understanding. Last week some Church members began e-mail chains calling for cancellations of subscriptions to AOL, which, like HBO, is owned by Time Warner. Certainly such a boycott by hundreds of thousands of computer-savvy Latter-day Saints could have an economic impact on the company. Individual Latter-day Saints have the right to take such actions if they choose.

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints as an institution does not call for boycotts. Such a step would simply generate the kind of controversy that the media loves and in the end would increase audiences for the series. As Elder M. Russell Ballard and Elder Robert D. Hales of the Council of the Twelve Apostles have both said recently, when expressing themselves in the public arena, Latter-day Saints should conduct themselves with dignity and thoughtfulness.

Not only is this the model that Jesus Christ taught and demonstrated in his own life, but it also reflects the reality of the strength and maturity of Church members today. As someone recently said, “This isn’t 1830, and there aren’t just six of us anymore.” In other words, with a global membership of thirteen and a half million there is no need to feel defensive when the Church is moving forward so rapidly. The Church’s strength is in its faithful members in 170-plus countries, and there is no evidence that extreme misrepresentations in the media that appeal only to a narrow audience have any long-term negative effect on the Church.

Examples:

During the Mitt Romney election campaign for the presidency of the United States, commentator Lawrence O’Donnell hurled abuse at the Church in a television moment that became known among many Church members as “the O’Donnell rant.” Today, his statements are remembered only as a testament to intolerance and ignorance. They had no effect on the Church that can be measured.

When the comedy writers for South Park produced a gross portrayal of Church history, individual Church members no doubt felt uncomfortable. But once again it inflicted no perceptible or lasting damage to a church that is growing by at least a quarter of a million new members every year.
When an independent film company produced a grossly distorted version of the Mountain Meadows Massacre two years ago, the Church ignored it. Perhaps partly as a result of that refusal to engender the controversy that the producers hoped for, the movie flopped at the box office and lost millions.

In recent months, some gay activists have barraged the media with accusations about “hateful” attitudes of Latter-day Saints in supporting Proposition 8 in California, which maintained the traditional definition of marriage. They even organized a protest march around the Salt Lake Temple. Again, the Church has refused to be goaded into a Mormons versus gays battle and has simply stated its position in tones that are reasonable and respectful. Meanwhile, missionary work and Church members in California remain as robust and vibrant as ever, and support for the Church has come from many unexpected quarters — including some former critics and other churches.

Now comes another series of Big Love, and despite earlier assurances from HBO it once again blurs the distinctions between The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and the show’s fictional non-Mormon characters and their practices. Such things say much more about the insensitivities of writers, producers and TV executives than they say about Latter-day Saints.

If the Church allowed critics and opponents to choose the ground on which its battles are fought, it would risk being distracted from the focus and mission it has pursued successfully for nearly 180 years. Instead, the Church itself will determine its own course as it continues to preach the restored gospel of Jesus Christ throughout the world.

Sunday, March 8, 2009

Madeline's b-day. So late, sorry.















Madeline's birthday was amazing and I feel bad that it has taken me this long to post some pics. My parents came out for her birthday, which really meant a lot to me and I am sure a lot to Madeline.  Madeline really does have the most amazing Grandparents.  Not that I ever questioned how much they would love her, I just get so grateful that both sets of Grandparents love her so much, spoil her so much and are so involved in her life.  We live in different states which makes it hard, but the effort that both Grandparents make, makes me feel so blessed!

So as you can see from the pics above Madeline got a little messy from her cake.  I really though Madeline would have a field day with that cake and make a mess.  However, I have raised a kind of clean baby, which I did not think was possible.  I had to shove her hands into the frosting and she actually got upset with me and wanted me to clean it off.  When she gets things on her hands she shows it to me and expects me to clean it immediately.  I really had to rub that frosting all over her.  She got into it a little more with time, as she did with the cake in her 12-month pics, but really, not what I was expecting from a child who came from me.  It was so cute though, to see that look of shock when we actually wanted her to make a mess.  What a girl!

I swear since the day Madeline turned one she has gotten even more personality and I absolutely love it.  I can't get enough of her.  She snuggles and kisses everything.  She is an absolute expert at blowing kisses.  These aren't just any kisses either.  They would knock you over if she happens to blow one your way.  That girl does everything with such passion.  

She is not walking yet, however she could if she wanted to.  She climbs up on everything and walks along it.  She got an awesome walker for her birthday from our friends Brittany and Matt and she LOVES it.  It cracks me up though, she looks like a little old lady pushing her walker. She has quite the waddle needless to say.  

She is talking up a storm lately as well.  She points to everything and says "dat," like "what's that."  I have a feeling she is going to talk my ears off, which I deserve from all the years of being such a big mouth myself.  Her little voice is the most precious voice that makes me melt.  Speaking of melting I had to organize her clothes that no longer fit her the other day (2 HUGE bins by the way).  I totally cried.  She is not my itty bitty baby anymore.  It goes WAY too fast, but I have to say we are enjoying every second of it with her.

I will post some more later, but I wanted to give a quick little update.  Thank you so much Mom and Dad and Mom and Dad Deter for spoiling Madeline like crazy and making her first birthday so special.  Also, thanks to all our friends who also spoiled her.  It was a wonderful day.